I woke up this morning feeling as gorgeous as Carrie Bradshaw. The one thing I admire about her character is how understanding and open she is and the thing that made sense to me while watching SATC was, “hey, what she said is true,” and trust me, this isn’t included in being a women’s right activist. Call me sexist but hey, that’s why we have demographic study and it includes gender.
Plus, when I look back, why haven’t I written anything interesting and letting out what I really feel. So much for gatekeeping. As soon as I realised this, the most important things is to get my thoughts straight out; what am I most dissatisfied about and what I want to share with you. From the bottom of my heart, what I really want to share with you today is about sexuality and screw censorship, it includes blow job.
The thing that I learn from observing, listening and experiencing relationships is that sexuality is involved either orally or just plain sex in the office or in bed. And the thing I also know is that men generally enjoy blow job than getting in bed. There’s no fuss to answer it, it is very simple, no fuss needed and you’re ready to go once you’re done ‘coming’. Perfect for ‘come’ and go.
In general, what I also know is that not every woman likes giving one. And the weirdest thing that a woman could ever be afraid of is having this inferiority that she would be dumped just because she refused giving the guy a blow job. How convenient. So, girls, you want to get dumped, don’t give him a blow job.
But, it is also empowering to feel that women can make a man go crazy. Let’s look at the mathematics here. When a man wants a blow job, it doesn’t matter if it’s from a random girl that he gets at the bar or if it’s his girlfriend or wife, the fact that he needs to ‘cum’ and imagine the woman stopped half way or maybe get him to do you first and you walk away while he was already ‘up’. Now, that is hell yeah!
It is a twisted logic but it’s what we call the cycle of nature. Another cynical thought would be his fantasies. Speaking in general again, one of his fantasies would be having threesome. Wait, not with another guy but with another woman. That means, yeah, he would love to see his woman being a lesbian for once. As Taylor Swift and Boys like Girls said, “two is better than one”.
A message for most guys who owns that fantasy, a woman can get kinky but it will be as much as to assume but, we mainly like to have our guy just to ourselves and it is just because. Just imagine having threesome but not as the math of 1 woman + 1 woman + 1 man but 1 woman + 1 man + 1 man. Yeah, I won’t hate Taylor Swift for her say on two is better than one.
Strangely, as much as most women hates giving blow jobs and more hateful for threesome, I’d have to say that almost half ended up giving in. The persuasion goes two ways; ‘it doesn’t hurt to learn’ and ‘for me/because I love you’.
It pains me to say this but true enough, most women are suckers for those fucked up lines. I know that throughout the whole post, I sounded like a damn sexist and I am speaking in general term but how general is it, nobody knows. But I can assure you, a bit more than half was based on personal experience; friends and myself.
The inner mind of men are three things; smoke, boost and sex.
I am not saying there are no decent men out there who are not just about running away from commitment and all about women but those decent men are still men but the difference is that they stick to one woman and are committed to that one woman and probably he doesn’t smoke or drink. The main point is, men will always be men and sex is number one in both of their brains; the brain in the head skull and the brain in his pants. Mind you, but the brain in his pants works more often than his brain in his skull. Yeah, I just sound like a God damn sexist.
P.s: I’m a very straight woman. No harm done, just truth and information <3
I think you have jus summed up what all of us ladies have been keeping locked inside our heads and its true, us ladies.. we have a superior ground on the other gender. Im speaking from not only experience but fact.
Something that the other gender will not admit to but men do need women. Full stop