Here and there, everywhere.
To dear good friend and brother, Aaron*, here is an answer to your blog post of “What do we want?”
We know what we want, Aaron. We always do. It’s just that when time comes in ‘desperate’ measures such in impressing a person that we really want to hold on to. I have always said this, ‘never try too hard’ because the outcome of trying too hard is you’ll get hurt, hardly too.
“To gain something can be a hard task, but losing it can take a matter of seconds,”
Definitely a yes.
Dear Aaron, everyone wants to improve. But, never sidetrack. Once you do, the possibility to lose something is even bigger.
Here is what I think. I look at politically incorrect things. You do too but, hey look, if you lose something, you gain something else 
People come and go in our lives. The worthy ones stay throughout our lives. I apologise for what I’m gonna say now but it is okay if you lose her because maybe, God has something else store in for you. Not that I’m saying to be the ‘the green is always greener on the other side of the hill’ complex but just now that sometimes, you just can’t push it no matter how much you’ll cry later on.
What’s life without risks, eh? 
Karma.
It makes the world go round.
i’m sure aaron has taken this advice well
the green is greener on the oter side of the hills but we might as well stick to the one we are one cause we might not know if there’s a snake waiting for us on the other side.