The word is as interesting as what I have to elaborate. Women in the general knowledge is known to be the opposite of men who have sticks and women does not, unless you use science, that’s another story. Putting the science theory aside, let’s talk about the God’s wonderful creation, which is the subjected topic above; women.
I don’t think I have to tell you what women are, literally since I did tell you that they’re opposite men and since Adam & Eve dropped from heaven on earth, they are our ancestors. Unless, you’re a damn bloody stupid pigeon. In this particular page, I’ll tell you on my personal thoughts and opinion on this subject, women.
To me, being a woman/girl/lady (or whatever the word in the Oxford dictionary equals it to) isn’t as easy what ‘men’ would always think. Let me explain to you what women do and what they have contributed throughout the first existence on earth.
“Behind every man, there’s a woman,”
same as,
“behind every great man, there’s a greater woman,”
You see, society stereotype women as weaklings just because they don’t have sticks. Looking back at history, name in Western, European, Mid Easterns or Asians, not leaving behind the Africans, have always put women in a place where the limits of the extent of what women can do are buried underground. Centuries ago, those society ignored, closing their eyes and ears against women and because of that, women dare not to say anything as long as they just ignore women and keep on saying ‘NO’.
Until afterwards,because of wars to create an evolution, women started thinking on their own. During wars, men are needed on the battle field, leaving women on their own. That, ladies and gentlemen, is the start of independent women
Women have the biggest job in the universe. Watching my mother, I realised a lot of things about being a woman. Women are very good at multi-tasking. No denial. Look at our mothers, dear readers, how they juggle professional job as a teacher, a business woman, a doctor, a lawyer, a chef or just about anything else and taking care of the house chores; preparing the family’s breakfast, the laundry, and cooking dinner, also, attending to both her husband and her children.
You evaluate.
They say men always have to work hard, true, I don’t deny that, but women always have to work harder. Prophet Muhammad said, “first comes your mother, then your father,”
Why?
I think you’re smart enough to think, right?
As time flies by and in this time of globalisation, women are fighting for positions to be recognised and to gain independence. Excluding the European countries because they have recognised women’s rights, other countries have yet to accept women being indepent in their society. As much of a free country America is, even they haven’t recognised women’s rights.
In Asian countries, women are still pretty much restricted to some limit because of traditions. The Asians believes that women are supposed to be behind men. OK, this is my opinion, yes, I agree. God create men and women as pair for reasons.
God ain’t stupid.
Men can’t live without women or women can’t live without men. It goes both ways. You’re just bullshitting yourself if you keep saying inside your puny brain that, ‘it’s OK, I’m fine on my own,’
Wrong.
As long as you breathe the oxygen on this corrupted earth, you can never be alone because living creatures need each other to survive.
Living creatures are not made to be alone and that’s why God made men paired with women. Male and female. Plants and the sun with water. Humans and animals eat each other
ahaha.
In my opinion, women can never be above men in the cycle of life. And I do agree that women can’t lead a whole great of society. OK, you might be confused now. Look, women, as much of a great deal they are, multi-tasking and having the same capabilities of a men to lead, they can never lead with a men behind them because, not many can oblige to a woman leader.
That is how it is.
And to change the way of majority’s perception, maybe after the second world is created,
I think that women should be given a right to lead and not being bias towards women just because you think men are natural leaders.
NOTE: NOT ALL MEN ARE BORN LEADERS.
That’s why you don’t see many Barack Obama or Tun Dr. Mahathir around leading a country in a very good way.
To me, I just think that even with the born of ‘Women’s Day’ it is still not enough. The birth of this day made about 1%-2% or awareness in the society.
Women are known to be sensitive, let it be independent or not, they are sensitive creatures. The difference is tough women (their ego and pride can compete with men a.k.a complex woman) tend to hide it and put up a poker face while the other type of women tend to show it more decently.
This is where men thinks women are complicated.
If you men, can see there these types of women, you’ll know how to handle us. We have warned you that not all women are the same and men has warned us that not all of them are the same (with differnt height of ego)
Here are some tips to a more complex woman:
- since they don’t show it through words, they are best at showing it through their ego and actions, that means, they are your mirrors.
- in this type of game, you have to face yourself because she’s your reflection but here’s the thing, you need to be patient
- some of these complex women tends to soften up with flowers, just like any other women but be careful, women who have higher egos tend to mark up their price of winning, means, you can’t just soften them up with just flowers, chocolates or take them out for a dinner while serenading to them.
- honestly, the more complex a woman is, they’re worth your hassle.
What the hell is with tip number 4?
I am one of those complex women. I have an alter ego, a very high one too. I admit that I can’t by bought with diamonds even though I admire them. I can’t be bought with flowers of roses and singing to me or taking me out to dinner. Sweet and charming words won’t work on me either. I know this is the attitude of a corporate working women. We tend to put up a poker face and try to find something or someone to fill up our emptiness in our hearts. We go through a lot of men to find the right one but some may have given up because of their own personality.
Complex women are women who are extra independent, meaning they know they can handle anything on their own. They tend to push people away from them. Some of them are just afraid and some are just deeply wishing for somebody to walk beside them.
It’s hard.
For women, being independent is both a gift and a curse.
Gift: you can bring yourself well, adapting to anywhere.
Curse: two types of men will approach you;
- men who are scared that they can’t handle you.
- men will take you out and all but they’re just playing around.
For complex women, to find the men of your dreams isn’t easy. Even though they want a man to walk beside them, they can’t put away their ego.
It’s a hard catch isn’t it?
I know, I’m in that position.
I’m not even working and I am still a university student and I have a deep wish inside my heart.
TO ALL MEN,
DON’T GIVE UP.IF THERE’S A WILL, THERE’S A WAY